Credence we knew, we had!

Every day many of ourselves try to start fresh, do something new to make sure they get a good grasp of the ground on which they stand, getting to know what is their true place. The road to starting something new is always a hell of a task because most of the time when people try to work out new stuff they end up frustrated and saying that it’s not meant for me. So, how one can know in the messed up situation that they have the juice to do this job? 

When we people start a job within the few hour or days depends upon the nature of the job there comes a moment when our inner voice takes over and tells us that you are getting tired of doing the job, this is not the job you can stick your ass to, and it’s time to say goodbye and to below some steam of working in someplace new, some new dimension. We mostly refer bumps to the obstacles one encounters doing what wasn’t for us. It doesn’t mean that the true desire comes easy on us no it will hit us with bad days. 

No wonder the simplest questions are so complex, and hence to find the answer to such question demands time. What we can do to get the answer and have a normal chance of having a life which allows us to explore ourselves, not to be judged by people including our family, friends pretend that they don’t care what we want to do deep inside they think we are catching at straws and there is no future for such frenzy we leaning on to. 

 The cogent approach for proving to people who matter a lot in our life and stubborn folks than other people. Other people don’t know about your past attempts or better to say mistakes but to know inevitable and bitter fact suppresses our force of trust in ourselves. Are we being judged by our own loved ones and not by the unknown crowed? In all these years are we being steer in thinking we are apple of their eye? When we definitely were in the illusion of having a vote of confidence? 

I think this is a case of self petty happens with every single person. It happens with some people sooner than others. Hence giving them a sure chance of taking off the pressure of their shoulders, by showing them what they presumed about us. It’s just like going undercover from lurking eyes that indulge our soul with the guilt of not proving to be worthy enough to earn respect from them. This hideout does not mean we have to surrender. The real gameplay is not giving up on the soul nature that makes us who we are. Our very own definition of me. This is just inception that eludes out us and lets us thrive in a suppressant environment.

Comments

  1. I think that reading people is very hard, especially when you are not aware of their backgrounds. Everyone has their self doubts and nobody was born super confident. It's something we all work towards.

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  2. We certainly learn from our experience. This post has some really positive words.

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  3. Mistakes are an everyday affair in my life, but I've learnt not to let it bother me too much.

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  4. I don't know. I always tell myself that if you insist and keep at it, you will get results. Being a stain that I gotta clean by rubbing over and over again or a job that feels tedious after a while. And though I won't be doing the task at the same pace as in the beginning, I will keep going, and once some results show, I get motivated and improve the speed, too.

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  5. We learn from our mistakes & experience. This is ok.

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  6. Definitely this is something we all go through. Finding ourselves in a situation where we don't know we would be able to complete our goals or not. But this is when resilience kicks in and tell us to survive it even when no one is supporting us .

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  7. learn from your mistake and never do that again is the lesson of life. thanks for sharing dear !!

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  8. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Great post, thanks for sharing.

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  9. Learning from experience helped man survive to what we are now. Great read pal.

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  10. I guess we all experience this at some levels. And it is important to learn from, our mistakes rather than allow them define us.

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  11. Resilience is definitely an important trait but they find more and mor that it might be inherited as opposed to learned.

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  12. We all make mistakes and must take them as lessons.

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  13. We experience this at some stage in life. But i learned to learn from experiences and move on.

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  14. We learn from mistakes.. That's how life is! isn't it?

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  15. We all make mistakes. We can either learn from it or let it define us.

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  16. I think not to judge people is a great approach. You never know what a person is dealing with.

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