7 Things that Slow you down
The world is a difficult
place to survive as we didn’t know, what are the most impactful things that
influence our lives without being detected. These things are part of our daily
life they are like a bad spleen that infect us if unchecked. But if you want to
get a chance of having a healthy and peaceful life. You need to avoid doing this thing right away to make your life better.
To
Reasoning without a reason
Most of our problem
harvest from our interactions we have or make with people we meet. When we
interact with other people we start to chat, but sometimes the interaction
doesn’t go as smooth as we expect. The reason for that is a bad assessment
ability. Assessment ability allows you to restrain our conversation to the minimum
and producing an efficient result. Bad chat often ends up in conflict so, try to
observe the person you interact before you talk your business. To reason
without a reason is wastage to your time. You need to prioritize your own time
before you meet the next person.
Annoying
people
Your personal space is a place from where a larger part of your products and ideas are
generated, and having annoying people in that space is a suicide quite
literally. You have to learn this the hard way, but some time annoying people
are the ones we surround ourselves with. Annoying people are like constant
sounds of drums that make you crazy. They have a pudgy opinion about everything
they might the whole world for their broken doorknob. So, if you have these
people surrounding you just get them away from your space.
Leaning
on to false hope
Hope is the biggest
weapon one could have but if you are hunching onto false hope. You are going to get your heartbroken. You will feel betrayed by the one you associated your
hope with. It doesn’t imply that keeping hope and expecting that hope from a
person is wring but humans are the most unpredictable creatures so, what you
need to do is to keep the worst scenario in mind. Your best bet is to rely on your
own skills and hope on them.
Praise
Praise is the seed that
grows into a strong tree of arrogance. People praise you because they want
something from you. It’s a saying “nothing is for free” even the praise. Your
friends yes your friends are the ones that feed you all of this praise to feed off of your money or they want you to call somebody to ask for a favor
for them. Praise add wrong stats to your self-evaluation. You overestimate yourself and in doing so slow your progress.
Dependency
Depending on
others is the same as having a limp but not admitting to yourself that you need
treatment. You can’t move forward if you are depending too much for each
and everything. So, what you need to do is to wear your big boy pants
and stop depending. Depending takes away the ability to make decisions because
you are being controlled by people you depend on. Dependency can have many
shapes and forms like finance, confidence, moral as many as you can think of.
Swayed
You heard people are
being conned by people, or becoming an accomplice to aiding the wrong person in committing
a crime. People sway they manipulate you into thinking that they have the right
reason for doing what they are doing and it’s a cause you must join for a
greater good. But to clear these people only want to get their dirty work done
by other people. They don’t care what happens to you they are only interested
in what you can do for them nothing else. Whether you are an office employee or
any other work person persuasion can get to you and can ruin your career, even
your family so when you see one persuader be careful because they can make you
stray from your goals.
Lack of bigger picture
The bigger picture is
important as a belt in your pants, which keeps you running without embracing
yourself in front of people. Not keeping a bigger picture in your mind makes you
less focused, more and more and distracted. For example, you might not compromise
on one thing that can get you one step closer to the goal of your life.
“Sometimes it’s better to
lose rather than winning because, in the long run, that loss is the best resource you
can stash for the time to come”
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